tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5262780222421784520.post7543177190405043743..comments2023-07-16T02:00:55.966-07:00Comments on Joy and Sorrow, Intertwined.: Waves of grief, expected, unexpected, accidental, and self-inflicted.JoyAndSorrowhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03923776278331956351noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5262780222421784520.post-24569890465582330482011-08-17T11:06:51.832-07:002011-08-17T11:06:51.832-07:00I hate this.
It breaks my heart to know Andrew w...I hate this. <br /><br />It breaks my heart to know Andrew will forever be stripped from hanging out with his grandfathers and doing "boy" things. I hate the guilt they carry and the guilt we carry.<br /><br />I torture myself too. I still follow pregnancy blogs from people who got pregnant around the time I gave birth to my dead child-- BTW, all their babies are being born like NOW. <br /><br />I have never followed a blog where it ended in tragedy. I was blogging long before Andrew was even considered/conceived. I carried my whole pregnancy on that blog and then the bomb dropped. How come I have never read a blog and saw it end poorly? Really awful luck. Super.<br /><br />I'm sorry it's been so hard. I had a long cry on Monday and have been okay since. Those small triggers really impact us.B. Wilson @ Windy {City} Wilsonshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17479551028143520755noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5262780222421784520.post-87130960810967557312011-08-17T10:43:19.680-07:002011-08-17T10:43:19.680-07:00ugh, heartbreaking. i have been feeling the same w...ugh, heartbreaking. i have been feeling the same with the loss of the brother/sister thing. it makes me so sad. and I ran across a "Grandpa's Sidekick" bib we had given to my dad for Father's Day. I still can't believe Hayes won't use it.Mollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09327445812846183545noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5262780222421784520.post-78699854334626664692011-08-17T10:13:35.514-07:002011-08-17T10:13:35.514-07:00There's so much here that rings true even with...There's so much here that rings true even with the differences in our experiences. This is a tough road and I'm so heartbroken for you. I don't have any advice (because, really, who wants to hear advice anyway), just know that I'm out here reading and thinking about you and your children. Sending you strength. Wishing Elias were still here with you and Evelyn.TracyOChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16227348728165440844noreply@blogger.com